the first step

{Wearing: Zara Jacket (c/o), ModCloth Blouse (super old), H&M Shorts, Zara Pumps, Marc by Marc Jacobs Bag & Necklace via Muse}

If you overheard how often Kevin has had to ask me "Melissa, where are your pants?" lately, you'd think I had turned into a nudest. What's actually happening, is that I just keep making the decision to wear shorts or skirts on days where bare legs are not a good idea. Sure, it's sunny out, but it's windy and actually really cold. While he normally wouldn't question what I decide to wear, the problem is that while I'm cold I constantly ask (out loud) "ugggh, why didn't I wear pants???"... Every. Single. Time. I'm not sure where this horrible habit of under dressing and then complaining about it as if I had no control over the situation has come from but I am well aware that I do it.

And the first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem. It's not fixing the problem right away... so, I don't have to wear pants or anything warm as long as I admit that what I'm doing is a problem... right?